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Need to Take Back Control of Your Life? Stop Complaining!
- by Tony Mase
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Everyone falls victim to complaining every now and
again. That's why "venting" is such a popular pastime! However, if you
genuinely believe your life isn't what it should be, complaining isn't going
to help.
Excessive complaining makes everyone uncomfortable. Think
about someone you know who complains a lot. Chances are you try to avoid him
- and other people do too. The last thing you want is to be "that guy" - the
guy no one wants to talk to, for fear he'll launch into a complaint rant.
So, what can you do to stop complaining and get your life back on track
- instead of letting it control you?
First, you need to understand
that complaining is a bad habit - much like biting your nails or picking at
a scab; all it does is make things worse. Complaining may even be something
you do without thinking, because it's become such a habitual part of your
life.
Many people start complaining because they've created a bunch
of negative thoughts in their own heads. They realize they're making their
feelings of anger or frustration worse, so they try to get rid of it all by
complaining.
Instead of falling victim to those negative thoughts,
make a conscious effort to get rid of them. Promise yourself that you're not
going to let some negativity define who you are. Remember, your entire
demeanor is based on what you think!
Similar to the way a healthy
diet can help your waist line, healthy thoughts can help your demeanor. If
you truly want to take control of your life and be happier, you can't feed
your mind negative thoughts. Instead, you have to understand you're in
control of those thoughts - and let them go.
But how do you let
things go?
If you're in the midst of a bunch of negative thoughts,
simply letting them go can seem a whole lot easier said than done. Here's
how you can do it:
- Relax.
Read a book, take a bath, or do
anything else that'll calm you down. If you can't relax right away, that's
OK. Understand that it took time for you to build up all of these negative
thoughts and complaints and it'll take time for them to go away. As long as
you remain dedicated to relaxing, you'll win the fight!
- Believe in
yourself.
You can be your biggest critic or your biggest supporter;
the choice is up to you. If you make a mistake, accept responsibility for it
and then let it go. If you dwell on it, the negativity and your complaining
will never go away.
- Surround yourself with positive things.
The more positivity you're around, the easier it'll be to let it naturally
become part of your life - instead of always falling back on negativity. If
you steer clear of negativity, eventually, all of those bad habits will turn
into good ones. Like any addiction, the more you feed your complaining
habit, the more it'll take over your life. For example, if you and a certain
friend always get together for drinks and wind up complaining to each other,
stop going out for drinks.
- Stop blaming others.
Everyone
will place blame on someone else from time to time, but blame isn't going to
make you feel better. Instead, deal with problems and move on. Again, you'll
have to work hard to remove all of the negative feelings.
If you make
a serious effort to stop complaining today, you could wind up with a whole
new you tomorrow!
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Tony Mase is a serious student of the
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Own Subconscious Energies for Health, Prosperity and Personal Achievement"
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